How does one succeed in life?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Can you name a female actress who has had bad timing or luck in her film career?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Did you know that we white women prefer Black boyfriends?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Hangs out with loser friends.

Do you anal play alone?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

What I need from you?

Can a meme heal what therapy can't?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Does being poor build better character than being born rich?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Ask yourself:

Why do siblings (or other close relatives) stop visiting each other as they grow older? Why does this happen with so many people nowadays?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Procrastinates a lot.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Do you think that drug addiction is a symptom of larger societal ills? What is it about our culture that leaves so many feeling like they're inadequate, trying any ill to find a cure?

Does not procrastinate.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Do very hot men ever feel attracted to an ugly woman? Why?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

🔥Why has Prime Narendra Modi become Extremely FRUSTRATED and Highly DEPRESSED because he has NOT been invited by Donald Trump to witness his Oath Ceremony for his INAUGURATION on 20th January as the next PRESIDENT of USA? Does the DESPERATE Narendra Modi FEAR that Donald Trump's actions may even LEAD to the FALL of the BJP-led MINORITY Government in India, as such actions have already caused GREAT PANIC in the NDA Coalition?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

What is a fun psychological trick to try on someone?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Making more friends is a goal.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Am I the bitch for never wanting to talk to my sister again because of something she said while talking back to me?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Can bosses get fired for being too hard on employees?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Why do you think Filipinos are conservatives?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

That's it for today.